I am Dr. Maryam Hassan — a medical doctor and gynaecologist specialising in vaginismus. I have helped women from 12+ countries move from years of failed treatments and silent shame to full, pain-free intimacy.
"After 10 years of marriage, I was finally able to experience intimacy. I am now hopeful and ready to start a family."
— Neta, ZambiaIf you've done Botox, physiotherapy, dilators, or been told to "just relax" — and you're still here — it's not because you failed. It's because those approaches missed the root cause entirely.
Vaginismus is not a physical problem with a physical fix. It is a neurological fear-pain cycle driven by the amygdala. Until that cycle is addressed directly, the body will keep protecting itself.
"Most treatments address the symptom — muscle tightness — without ever asking why the muscle is tight. That's why women go through Botox, spend months on dilators, and still can't cross the finish line."
This work requires commitment, consistency, and emotional openness. It is designed for women who are genuinely ready — not just curious.
"Alhamdulillah, I was finally able to have successful intercourse with my husband after months of struggling. Even after the first success, she continued supporting me as we built confidence and consistency."
"Within just 7 weeks of working together, I was finally able to have successful penetrative intercourse with my husband after 10 years of marriage. I am now hopeful and ready to start a family."
"Within just 2 weeks, I was able to resume pain-free intimacy. More importantly, I gained clarity and a deeper understanding of the connection between my emotions, stress, and physical symptoms."
I really liked talking to you. When you find someone who understands you, you automatically start to feel better.
I want to get my treatment and counselling from you, rather than having to go to new doctors who don't even understand me and my mental situation.
I know I'm a doctor and it would be very easy for you to explain many things to me, but when I'm in pain and my nervous system doesn't work properly, these medical studies are of no use to me.
I want us both to start from zero on this journey and then note our progress.
Assalamualaikum Dr, I hope you're doing well
Alhamdulillah we did the third phase a couple of times and we were able to have intimacy
There were moments of discomfort but alhamdulillah it wasn't painful at all
My husband and I are so, so grateful Doctor. The guidance and support you've shown me mean the world to me
May Allah bless you with jannah 🤲
Salaam dr! We were able to insert his penis in today about maybe 2 inches of the way or more. I'm not sure exactly how much but it was successful and also very pleasurable.
There was no pain, but if we tried to go further it wasn't able to and kinda hurt a little. We will try again soon inshaAllah 🙏❤️
I have no idea how to react because this is blowing my mind 🤗😂🥹❤️
A safe, structured 90-minute consultation designed for women who are genuinely ready to begin healing — with guidance, clarity, and emotional safety.
Many women come in unsure, hesitant, or emotionally guarded. What changes most often is not just understanding — but safety. Feeling heard is usually the first step toward progress.
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